With this simple technique, women can experience much more powerful pleasure.
In bed, it’s always worth aiming for variety – and a little experimentation never hurts when it comes to achieving the most intense orgasms possible. Beyond changing positions or locations, there are plenty of other ways to increase excitement and guarantee greater pleasure. It’s important to focus on steady breathing and to remember that for most women, orgasm comes most easily through a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation. But there’s also a small additional method that promises an earth-shaking experience.
Stop Right Before the Peak
Orgasm control is most often discussed in the context of men, since they need to avoid climaxing too early — before their partner. But women can also benefit from this technique, not only to ensure that their partner finishes with or after them, but also when they use it themselves.
According to sex and relationship therapist Charlie Glickman, every woman should try this trick, as it can lead to pleasure unlike anything they’ve experienced before. The idea is simple: just before orgasm, stop the movement or stimulation for a short moment, take a brief pause, then continue lovemaking. Then, slow down again — and the couple can repeat this cycle as long as they can handle it. The longer they prolong it, the more powerful the final climax will be.
The expert explains that this process is intensely pleasurable in itself: it excites both partners to the extreme, makes the entire body more sensitive, and stimulates the brain so deeply that it becomes fully tuned into the experience — setting the stage for the most intense orgasm imaginable.
How to Make It Most Enjoyable
To get the most out of this method, it’s essential that both partners recognize exactly when to stop — right before reaching the peak. This can be practiced during masturbation, but experimenting together is even more exciting. Once that’s mastered, variety becomes key.
With this technique, lovemaking sessions tend to last much longer, but they shouldn’t become monotonous. During the short pauses, it’s a good idea to change positions — while keeping up other forms of stimulation such as kissing and touching. Alternating between, or combining, penetration and manual stimulation can also enhance the experience.